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24 July 2018

The First Trimester




As I sit typing this, I still can't believe that I'm already into my second trimester. It seems like both a life time and a blink of an eye ago that I saw those 2 pink lines, and felt the first bubbles of excitement (and nerves). I wanted to document these special moments, even if it's only me and my husband who reads them.



Shhh!



I think the hardest part of the first 12 weeks is keeping it a secret. To not be able to tell people that you feel like you just want to sleep for 24 hours straight, or that you're not intentionally (ok you are, but you catch my drift!) avoiding social gatherings involving alcohol is quite the challenge! I really wanted to tell the world as soon as we found out, but the worrier in me also was frightened of all the things that could go wrong (I still am to be honest).


Sickness

I'm not going to complain too much about sickness, as in all honesty, I've probably had what some would say is an easy ride. I didn't have any sickness until after 9 weeks, and even then it was mostly in the evenings. I would be fine all day at work, maybe the odd wave of nausea just before and after eating, then feel worse as the afternoon went on. Luckily for me, I would just go to bed early, which did help a lot. The hot weather has made the sickness feeling flare up again recently though, and I'm finding it difficult to keep cool!




Sleeping

I have slept a lot. A lot a lot a lot. I have been the nap queen. I haven't napped so much since when I was at university and I would always schedule an afternoon nap. I've really felt the effects of exhaustion on a whole other level. I used to hear others talk about the tiredness, and would think how bad can it really be? Well now I understand. I'm starting to feel a bit better now I'm into my second trimester (but I do still want a nap now and again). The first trimester though, I could easily nap for a few hours and then go to bed at 10pm again. I'm very fortunate my husband has helped out a lot, doing the food shop on his own and sorting dinner etc just so I can sleep.



Food

For most of the first trimester I really lost my appetite, and it's only just starting to rear it's head a little now. The thought of food turned my stomach, and I could just about manage to eat a sandwich. I haven't really had any cravings either, instead I've found I just want plain things, like ready salted crisps. Not the most healthy option, but needs must.

Early Scan



The wait for the 12 week mark just seemed like such a long way off, and I was already feeling very anxious, so we decided to take the plunge and book an early scan. We chose Mother Care Baby Bond, and I have to say I was hugely impressed with them. They made me feel really at ease and relaxed, and it was a lovely moment to see our tiny little dot there on the screen. I was around 7 weeks pregnant at that time, so there wasn't a whole lot the technician could tell us, but we did see our little ones heart beating away. That was comfort enough. They aren't the cheapest of things, ours cost £89, but I did feel a weight lifted off my shoulders to know that the baby was indeed there, and matched up to what we thought we were date wise.



What I've been buying 

I didn't buy much at all in the first trimester. I picked up some of the Pregnacare Vitamins to try and get some of the goodness into what was a very bland diet. I also picked up Clemmie's 'How to grow a baby and push it out' book, and I have to say I really love it! Definitely would recommend if you're looking for some witty yet informative pregnancy reading.




So there we have it, my first trimester summed up- night time nausea, nap queen and ready salted crisp fiend. I hope you've enjoyed a little peak into my experience of the first trimester. I'm so excited to be in to the second, and very much looking forward to gaining some much needed energy back!


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10 July 2018

We're Having a Baby!




You may (or may not) have noticed that I've been a little quiet around these parts for the past few months, but it is all for good reason....we're having a baby! Our little Baby Hart is due in January.

If you follow me on Instagram, you will probably have already seen our big news, but it feels so good to finally be able to share it with our nearest and dearest. I can stop worrying about being invited out for drinks, as everyone who knows me, knows I love a gin and I'm sure it would have eventually roused suspicion if I suddenly started passing it up!

We found out we were expecting our little squidge on 4th May. It was actually a little comical looking back, as I wasn't expecting it to be our month and only took the test as I was due to start my period. I was hurryingly getting ready for work, so left it in the bathroom and carried on pottering about. It was actually my husband who alerted me to the fact that the test was positive, and I even brushed him off by saying 'there has to be two lines you know' but sure enough he was right, there they were, two pink lines.

With not much time to let the news sink in I had to set off to work, full of a bundle of emotions, and in fact a little disbelief! So much so that I went out and bought two more tests, just to be extra certain. Each one came back with the same two lines.


We decided to wait until we had our twelve week scan before sharing our news, as I'm very much a worrier by nature. Though let's be honest does the worrying ever stop now?!

I'm currently just over 14 weeks pregnant and so excited to continue on this journey, growing teeny Baby Hart. I can't wait to share this next chapter of our lives.


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30 April 2018

An April Catch Up




I think I'm well overdue a catch up with you. This year is already whizzing by and with May on our door step and the smell of Spring (crosses fingers) in the air, I thought I had better touch base in real time over on this blog.

Every year that I've had Life In The Fashion Lane, I make a resolution to blog more. Yet when January rolls round, I blink, and its soon Summer and I've barely written anything! I'm not sure whether its the gloomy post Christmas weather that leaves me somewhat lack lustre in the blogging department, or the fact that I've just been so busy that I haven't had chance to sit down yet and write anything worth reading.

We've had an interesting start to the year, with my Dad celebrating his 50th and us going away for a mid week break. You'll have also seen we have another upcoming trip to North Yorkshire planned, which I'm super excited about.

My days have been jam packed, and when I'm not working, I have been sorting out things around the house and meeting up with my friends.

April has been a lovely month so far. The weather finally picked up for a few fleeting days, and we all got out and made the most of the sunshine. It's amazing what a tiny peek of sun can do for the soul. My mood was instantly lifted!

April started out with a trip to London with my friend Millie, to visit the Ideal Home Show. I'm obsessed with their magazine, so was extremely excited to see what the show would be like.

It was huge, and I'm still bowled over by how many stands there were. They had a lot of luxury items for sale, including concrete tables and hot tub's. My favourite part of the show  though, were the room set ups, I wish they'd had more of these as it's one of the reasons I love the magazine so much!



After the spending a few hours at the show and marvelling at all the d├ęcor, we got the tube and had a stroll around Covent Garden. Being from the Midlands I haven't ventured much into London, so it was lovely to visit Covent Garden for the first time.



We have also began work on transforming our garden this month, into a 'country cottage' haven. I have a whole separate series of posts coming up on our Garden Transformation, including this post here, all about our plans and inspiration.

We haven't done anything other than buy a shed and mow the lawn in the two years that we've been living here.  Our first year in the house saw us getting married and honeymooning in the Carribean, then the next year we focused on the interior of the house. This year, I hope by starting early, we can try and get the garden looking a little more like how we envision, and we can have our first garden party this summer! Though I won't lie, we're already behind thanks to the 'beast from the east' as most of March saw the garden covered in a thick blanket of snow.




I've met up with my friends a few times this month, for our mid week catch up. It's something I have really looked forward too and has been lovely to see them more often. We recently ventured into Chesterfield to try out Qoozies, whose interior is every blogger and Instagrammers dream. The food and smoothies are pretty scrumptious too!

It kind of makes me want to put faux flowers all around our house and on the ceilings, but I don't think Mr H would be too approving of it!

We sat in a very sunny window spot and watched the world go about it's business whilst having a catch up.





Alongside meet ups with my friends and venturing into London, me and my Husband have had a few trips to local tea rooms and antique shops. We visited the most beautiful hotel, Kedleston Country House, and had a cheeky gin. I've asked my Husband if we can go back there for my Birthday for afternoon tea, as it was having a refurb when we visited and wasn't offering food.

The interior is stunning and I could have taken a million photo's if I was given the opportunity. The panelling, glass light fixtures and pale grey colour scheme is dreamy and definitely ignited a spark to get on with finishing some of the rooms in our house! My office in particular has been painted for months, but we've just been putting off wallpapering as we are complete newbies to it and I have visions of it going disastrously wrong!


In terms of moments at home in April, I have finally nailed a double chocolate chunk cookie recipe. This is great in one respect, as I've been wanting to practice my baking skills for a long time, but bad for my waistline! (well what's left of it!) My next bake I want to master is the humble chocolate brownie, which I've not had much luck with yet.


So there we have it, I hope you've enjoyed catching up with me, and that this month has been good to you- here is to May being even better. Bring on the long sunny days. I am well and truly looking forward to evenings in the garden and days exploring Derbyshire and beyond.




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25 April 2018

Garden Transformation Plans and Inspiration




We are currently waiting for this awful weather we've been having to pass so that we can get stuck in to giving our garden a good transformation.

I've been scouring Instagram, Pinterest, magazines and more for inspiration. I've even been going to some open gardens for ideas on how to really transform our space (as well as the fact that I just love them!)

At the moment our garden is lacking character. It has a small courtyard outside our backdoor, followed by an extremely long lawn and at the end is a concrete plinth which is currently housing our shed.

We gave the garden a quick revamp last summer, with the addition of the shed, bird feeders, a little 2 chairs and table set, and an arch way. Stephen painted the fence, and I painted our gate, some planters and started on the shed. We just wanted to quickly create somewhere for us to sit and have a cup of tea in the summer sunshine.



Over this last year I have really gotten interested in gardening and growing plants. I have had my first go at growing tulips and alliums. Which, despite this horrible weather, went ok! Since then I have purchased a few more bulbs and seeds, as well as a climbing rose and some sweet peas. I'm waiting for this rain to pass before I can get started on sowing these, but I'm very aware that time is of the essence and I need to get them potted before the end of April!

This year, we want to start establishing our borders and create a larger social area, to have family and friends round in summer evenings. I look forward to enjoying a slab of home made cake and a gin cocktail in the sunshine, overlooking our growing garden bursting with flowers.

The first jobs on our list are, to dig out both the new larger seating area and the borders. We need to finish the shed and repair some of the winter damage that the storms have caused to it, and also replace the fence at the bottom of the garden, as it's currently just a wire one.

Once we have completed that, we will begin to plant out our seeds and purchase any larger plants.

We will be filling our seating area with small gravel, for a country cottage feel. I plan to surround it with raised beds of lavender and roses. I also want to hang festoon lights over the top of a large bench, complete with solar lanterns for a really romantic feel in the evenings.

Our borders will be a mix of wildflowers and cutting flowers. I want to see what works best in our garden and over the years really get it established.

I've been pinning away on my Pinterest so though I would share with you some of our inspiration for the garden.




I absolutely adore the top photo, and it's definitely the look we'd like to achieve in our own garden.

Have you recently started making over your garden
in preparation for those long summer days?
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15 April 2018

Our Travel Plans for 2018




If you've stuck around on my blog for long enough, you will know that me and my Husband love to travel. We've been to so many incredible places over the years we've been together, and have definitely made the most of our free time.

Last year we decided to have more breaks in the UK, rather than just one trip abroad, and do you know what? I really enjoyed them. So much so, that we are doing it again this year. Don't get us wrong we still love to travel abroad, and have plans for a trip at some point in the future, Italian coast we're looking at you. For now though, let me share with you what we have planned for this year.



February |
New Mills, Derbyshire




You would have seen already that we had a few days away in the pretty Derbyshire town of New Mills. We stayed in a gorgeous cottage surrounded by stunning views, and enjoyed a break of lots of walking and relaxing. This trip was particularly special to us as it was one of our presents to my Dad for his Birthday. We made some fantastic memories, such as trying to get back to the cottage from the pub, when the paths had magically turned to ice within a few short hours!

It was lovely to escape for a mid week break in the middle of a cold, dreary, February, and I would highly recommend New Mills, it's a great place to explore Derbyshire from.







May |
Linton in Craven, North Yorkshire

We decided that February to June felt like such a long time, and that we needed a mini break to escape from it all. There are so many gorgeous places to visit in North Yorkshire that it took us a while to choose where to go, I knew I wanted to be near to Skipton, which is when we came across Linton in Craven. It's such a quaint place with plenty of spectacular views and a nearby pub. I cannot wait to explore from our pretty B&B base. Our room also has a huge bath tub in it, which I plan to make the most of! Especially if the weather doesn't make a drastic improvement.




June/July |
Tenby, Wales

My Mum and Dad booked a pretty little cottage in Tenby,  and they asked us if we would like to join them on their break, which of course we jumped at! Tenby looks like such a gorgeous town, with its colourful coastal houses and plenty of places to explore. I've been having a nosey at where to eat and what activities we can do when we get there, my favourite part of trip planning. Fish & Chips, and independent shops, are top of the list! Alongside some coastal walks and wildlife spotting.

We went away with my Mum and Dad last year to Brixham, Devon and absolutely loved it, so I can't wait for this years break with them. 





July |
Centre Parc's

In July I'm also heading to Centre Parc's with my friends. I've never actually been to a Centre Parc's before, so I'm excited to see what they're like! I look forward to spending quality time with my friends whilst relaxing in the spa and chatting away the day in such great company. 


September |
Road trip around Scotland 

This is our biggest trip of 2018, we are going on a driving tour around Scotland with my Husband, Mother-in-law and Father-in-law. It's something we have been discussing for a while and have finally got the ball rolling. We'll be stopping at Glasgow, Loch Lomond, Edinburgh, Fort William, and the Cairngorms. We wanted a nice mix of urban and rural, so I think this list strikes the right balance. We've actually visited Edinburgh already, as I took my Husband there for a surprise Birthday break for his 21st back in 2013! We're looking forward to going back again to see more of what Edinburgh has to offer.

I can't wait for this trip, and have already started researching where to eat (again!) and what to do in each of the places we'll be stopping at. High on my list is a trip to see Glenfinnan Viaduct, which may look very familiar if you're a Harry Potter fan.

I would love to hear any of your recommendations of things to see or do in Scotland too, so please leave them in a comment! We're planning lots of sight seeing, but would also love some ''off the beaten track'' things to do/see.

November | TBC

That's all of the trips we have currently planned. We're also looking at booking a weekend away in November again if we can afford it, for our second anniversary. I'd like to make it our tradition, that instead of buying each other gifts for our anniversary, we choose to go away somewhere for one night and make more memories instead. Our first anniversary was spent in the gorgeous Cotswold's and it was the best way to celebrate our first year as Husband and Wife.

We are yet to decide where to go this year. I'm a huge fan of country retreats, and with our anniversary being in November, I dream of nights by a roaring log fire with a hot chocolate in hand. If you have any UK countryside weekend break recommendations for us, please leave them in the comments!




So that's our plans for this year's travels, are you off anywhere exciting this year? 



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